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6月30日 谈一次恋爱采一次气谨以此文献给恋爱失败的女同胞 特别是我老大 谈一次恋爱采一次气 这题目是剽窃所得，那篇文章是在牙医诊所陪老妈装烤磁牙的时候在一本女性杂志上翻到的。杂志名字已经遗忘，只记得很成人，文章具体内容也已经遗忘，只记得这个让人想要昂首挺胸的题目。 不少女孩儿谈过恋爱就身心俱疲，像是被吸血鬼吸干了血液和精华。但是恋爱到底是为了什么？首先，当然是为了追求幸福。如果这个人不能再让你幸福了，徘徊留恋只剩痛苦，那还不拔慧剑斩情丝还等什么？记得看过一个点一电影，一个女人理直气壮地指着他越轨的男人说：“you don't make me happy, you go!"不管是男人还是女人，都应该有这份潇洒。一切快乐至上。第二，恋爱也是一个进步的机会。“你走得多远，取决于你与什么人同行。”我们跟什么人在一起，一定会发现他有什么让值得欣赏的优点，也许是他为人善良，或是他写得一手好字，或是他烧菜一流，或是他有舌战群雄的口才，或是他为人处事精明干练，或是他虽然不爱说话却饱览群书知识渊博，总之他总有你眼中的过人之处。而男人大多好为人师，喜欢炫耀，这时候女人就要在恋爱之余采集其大脑精华，这样即使恋爱失败，也不至于一无所获。其实恋爱哪有谁输谁赢，只有谁更懂享受，更会学习，你采了更多的气，你就赢，反之，你就挨起。第三，恋爱是学习成长的实践课。宽容，忍让，包容，关爱自不必说，另外说得露骨一点就是恋爱的技巧。（突然不想展开论述了  ）如果这个人过去了，他也没有让你学到任何的优秀品质，那么这个人起码让你练了手，等到下次再遇对手，自然就能更加轻车熟路。不知道是不是自己过分乐观在这里大言不惭。还把恋爱说如此功利。但是起码一场恋爱过后除了伤心我们还需要学会自我安慰，如果看见自己还有很多所得，大概就不会只顾感叹自己失去的甜蜜时光而每天以泪洗面缅怀过往了吧～ 6月20日 广告之二6月19日 follow my head or follow my heart? Since I knew Felina, I began to learn how to be rational and how to anylze other's personality so that I could recoganize if this person is suitalble to be a friend or more. Then I am getting used to judge whenever I meet somebody, especilly boys, until recently I realized that no one around me can make me feel crazy for. Am I in a position where no one is eligible? Or has rational thinking just ruined all my crush and caused my heart so much misery? I feel frustrated everytime I see through others' weaknesses and however sensitive and sweet his words are I just can't feel the chemistry anymore...
Should I stop fllowing my head and let my heart lead? Which is better? Being pationate but silly or being sensible but judgemental? 6月17日 half year later When I was blowing the candles on my 22-year-old birthday cake, I felt I could foresee that the coming year would be full of obstcles and I promised to myself I would overcome all of them and accomplish a new "me" like a caterpillar developing into a butterfly. But now, not only has one single obstcle been overcame, but also I feel like there were more than one butterflies flapping all over my stomach when reviewing my passed half of the year being a 22-year-old.
Yes. This is a year full of obstcle——myself.
I have so spoiled myself to idle around that I don't know how to pull myself together at the end of the semester.
I have so unconfident to face my hiden past that when he showed up again to say sorry I held my cell phone with no words but floods of tears.
I have been so irrational that though aware of somebody's lack of responsibility and fear of commitment, I'm still falling for him.
I have been so head over heels about desserts that even swimming is not doing any good to my figure.
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There is no one to blame but myself on all those setbacks in my life. But the lucky thing is that I have realized it today, June 17th, half year after my 22-year-old birthday. From now on, I'm back in the battle against all the obstcles to make sure to be ready to turn to a butterfly when 23 is
on her way~ 6月11日 躲不开 凌晨三点钟，感觉自己的血管像是在脖子处被堵了，大脑充满输送不出去的血液……
得意地宣称自己有了一颗铜墙铁壁大钢心，什么悲伤也不能把它击穿之后两周，有人还能准确地戳中钢盔的隙缝，刺中后面的仍在痊愈的伤疤……
三年前堆满雪的午夜，他丢下我扬长而去的出租车，寂静的街道和自己的抽泣声。当时总是觉得周围的爱情故事老套，希望自己的有轰烈的剧情，结果轰烈的却只有结局。我被一个人抛在午夜白茫茫的大街上，刚才还因为我的歇斯底里而显得满胀，突然空旷得让人窒息……
请别再道歉了……别再一次次出现只为道歉……我不是恨你，是想拼命躲开有关被遗弃的任何回忆…… |
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